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I hope you know

Posted on August 31, 2022November 29, 2024 by Rebecca

I hope you know how loved you are. How you changed my life and how you made me so brave. I hope you know how special you are and that your potential is limitless.

Posted in Motherhood, Motherhood, Motivationals, ParentingTagged I hope you know how loved you are, Letter to my child, motherhood, real parentingLeave a comment

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@dreamworks “Find the Fun” is BACK at @_themal

@dreamworks “Find the Fun” is BACK at @_themallofafrica from 11–24 December, and it’s everything your kids have ever dreamed of!

Meet your favourite characters like Poppy, King Julien, Po, Gabby, and Puss in Boots, slide down the Trolls rainbow, bounce on trampolines, and unleash their creativity in the colouring zone—all for FREE!

Oh, and for little adventurers? A treasure hunt awaits, along with DreamWorks show screenings for the perfect festive vibe!

📍 Where: Centre Court (outside Spur)

⏰ When: 9AM–6PM daily (Character appearances at 1PM daily)

Tag your parenting squad and let’s make this a holiday to remember! 🎄 Don’t miss it—this is the must-see event of the season! 🙌

#DreamWorksFindTheFun #MallOfAfrica #HolidayMagic #FamilyTime #KidsActivities #FestiveSeasonFun #whatsoninjozi #johannesburg #familyfun

Childhood is all about the magic of little moments

Childhood is all about the magic of little moments—chasing bubbles, climbing trees and endless poolside giggles. But as a mum, I know that behind every adventure is a little prep to handle life’s hiccups.

This week, I’m sharing how @silverlab_healing has become part of our daily routine. From soothing scraped knees with their Healing Spray to tackling post-swim ear care with Ear Rescue, and even keeping my immune system strong with their Liquid, Silverlab has our backs through it all.

Because in a house full of love, laughter, and chaos, a little extra support goes a long way.

What’s part of your family’s wellness routine? Let me know below!
#ad #SilverStrength #WellnessWithSilver #EverydayWellness #MomLife #Silverlab

Looking for a toy that’s a win-win for both pare

Looking for a toy that’s a win-win for both parents and kids? Meet @plusplus_official —the one toy my kids can’t stop playing with!

Whether they’re creating a shimmering astronaut or a dreamy castle, Plus Plus is the perfect blend of fun and learning. It boosts focus, sparks teamwork, and encourages endless imagination—all while keeping them happily busy. (You’re welcome, parents!) 📸 Swipe to see what we’ve built this week!

Tell me—what would your little one create first? Drop your ideas in the comments below and let’s get inspired! 💡👇

#PlusPlus #CreativePlay #ParentingMadeEasy #BuildingMemories

This festive season, why not spread the holiday ch

This festive season, why not spread the holiday cheer to our feathered friends with some handmade bird seed ornaments, we're turning all of our outdoor trees into decorated christmas trees 😀
Using @westermans_za bird seed, I crafted these adorable ornaments to add a festive touch to our garden while providing a treat for the local wildlife. To make our garden even more inviting, I stocked up on suet balls and bird feeders, creating the perfect setup to attract more visitors, and we have been having a blast sitting and trying to identify all the different species.

Westermans bird seed is available online and at most local pet stores, so you can easily grab some for your own garden.

Get creative and make this holiday season extra special, not just for your loved ones but for the birds that bring life and color to our gardens. Share your creations and tag me – I’d love to see how you’re bringing Christmas to the outdoors!

Comment "FEEDER" and I'll send you the instructions !

#WestermansChristmas #BringingNatureHome
#GiftOfNature #garden #nature #gardentips #westermans #giftofnature #partnership

Is your Christmas wish for just one peaceful momen

Is your Christmas wish for just one peaceful moment while the kids stay happily entertained?
Enter @plusplus_official —the toy that’s as fun as it is educational!
From building a rocket ship to crafting adorable animals, Plus Plus sparks creativity and keeps those little hands (and minds) busy. 🛠🧠
It’s not just play—it’s problem-solving, fine motor skills, and hours of screen-free fun!
Swipe through to see the magic unfold.
💬 What’s your little one’s favorite thing to build?

#PlusPlus #CreativePlay #ParentingWin #ScreenFreeFun #screenfree #imaginationplay #openendedplay #openendedtoys #screenfreeplay @laceystoys

POV: You decide to customize an advent calendar to

POV: You decide to customize an advent calendar to gift to your husband on his early December birthday.

This is based on a bit of a sports mad man, so if that's your vibe comment "Advent," I'll DM you the full list of what I included.

Thank you, @lifewithlainee, for inspiring this incredible idea ! A definite must for every year.

#advent #adventideas #adventcalendar #ideasforhim #holidaygifting #christmasgifts

It's our annual post dedicated just to you. Happy

It's our annual post dedicated just to you.
Happy Birthday to the man who wears many hats—world’s best dad, my partner-in-crime, and self-proclaimed champion of padel, golf, and cycling.
The calm to our chaos, our reality check keeper. Father of my children , cricket coach and keeper of my heart.
You’re the glue that holds this circus together, and we’re so lucky to have you.
Here's to another year of epic adventures ! Happy birthday babe.

#OGsince2000 #happybirthday #youretheonethatiwant

Stocking stuffer magic! 🎁 Let their imaginatio

Stocking stuffer magic! 🎁
Let their imagination take flight this Christmas morning with Plus Plus tubes! Have you seen these pocket-sized treasures? They spark creativity, boost fine motor skills, and keep little hands busy all day long.
Discover a world of endless play with @plusplus_official
Psst… it’s the perfect gift for the curious builder in your life!

#PlusPlus #CreativePlay #LaceysToys #HolidayMagic @laceystoys #christmasgifts #giftideas #imaginationplay #imagination #partnership

What a beautiful afternoon spent with @cadbury_sa

What a beautiful afternoon spent with @cadbury_sa set amidst the serene embrace of nature at @ground_the_venue , we gathered to celebrate the profound beauty of gratitude. A tribute to the moments and people who make life extraordinary hosted by the most inspiring duo, @regodise .

A gentle reminder that life’s sweetest gifts often lie in the simplest acts: a heartfelt smile, a shared moment, or the indulgence of a Cadbury chocolate shared with someone dear.

As the day drew to a close, we embraced the festive spirit by crafting enchanting houses made entirely from Cadbury chocolate. These delectable creations were the perfect way to end with some friendly competition.

I invite you to continue this ripple of gratitude. Take a moment to reflect, to give thanks, and to bring joy to others in meaningful ways.

Tell me: What are you most grateful for today? Share your moments of thankfulness with Me.

#Cadburygivethanks #GiveThanksWithCadbury #EleganceInGratitude #ShareJoy #aglassandahalf

The School WhatsApp Group Survival Hack + Discount

The School WhatsApp Group Survival Hack + Discount code.

We’ve all been there…
"Has anyone seen John's jersey? We're missing a soccer boot, whose lunchbox is this?"🙃
School WhatsApp groups are like a lost-and-found hotline, and honestly, I’m not about that life anymore.

This year, I’ve got a secret weapon: @labels4school . These stick-on labels are a lifesaver—slap them on jerseys, shoes, lunchboxes, and even that one pencil your kid insists is theirs forever...

No more frantic scavenger hunts or last-minute labeling marathons. And because I love you all (and want to save you from the chaos), here’s 15% OFF with my code REBECCA2025.

✅ Stick on.
✅ Stress gone.
✅ Chaos avoided.

Order now at Labels4School.com. Trust me, your future self will thank you! 💡
#MomLife #BackToSchoolHacks #Labels4School #BecauseIDontHaveTimeForThis #stationery #schoolstationery #mumhacks

Your hair is the ultimate accessory, and thanks to

Your hair is the ultimate accessory, and thanks to Trichotin, mine is thriving!
Not only has my hair loss dramatically reduced, but it’s also fuller, shinier, and stronger than ever. Trichotin’s powerhouse blend of vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants is designed to nourish your hair from the inside out, promoting thickness, strength, and even healthier skin.

Here’s to many more good hair days—and the confidence that comes with them!

@fusion_labs_online @sorbethairbar @sorbetgroup

#Trichotin #HairCareEssentials #healthyhair #haircare #partnership #beauty #beautyroutine #Healthcare #sorbetsquad #SorbetHairbar #sorbies

There’s something so magical about watching the

There’s something so magical about watching the girls form bonds with their Tiny Treasures dolls. It’s more than just play—it's friendship, imagination, and the sweetest moments of kindness coming to life. From picnic adventures to bedtime stories, they are really learning what it means to care and connect.
@tinytreasuresofficial brings out the beauty of a gentle heart.
Here’s to the memories they’ll cherish forever, one little treasure at a time.

#partnership #TinyTreasures #Laceys #LaceysToys #TinyTreasures #dolls #dollplay #play #imaginationplay #giftideas #sisters #SistersAndDolls @laceystoys

One @tinytreasuresofficial wasn’t enough! 🥰 T

One @tinytreasuresofficial wasn’t enough! 🥰 The girls got a second doll today, and the excitement is REAL! Now they’ve got the cutest little doll friends to play with, and the adventures are just beginning..

Do your children love dolls as much as these two?

#SistersAndDolls #TinyTreasuresLove #TinyTreasures #Laceys #LaceysToys #TinyTreasures #dolls #dollplay #play #gifting #childrensgifts

Because we all deserve to defy gravity and let our

Because we all deserve to defy gravity and let our true selves soar. 🌟✨
Being different? That’s your magic.
Being YOU? That’s how you fly. 💚🖤
Who’s ready to feel unlimited? What an INCREDIBLE movie, ill be watching and singing this on repeat all holiday season ...
#WickedTheMusical #DefyGravity #BeYourself #Wicked #wickedpremiere #wickedthemovie

Big surprise today! The girls were over the moon t

Big surprise today! The girls were over the moon to meet their new @tinytreasuresofficial friend, and let’s just say it was love at first sight! 💕

From her little pompom outfit to her sweet smell and soft, cuddly feel, this doll is already a favorite in our house!
The dolls are so lifelike. They feel like real little buddies to love and care for. ❤️ Perfect for sparking endless play and precious memories!

#TinyTreasures #Laceys #LaceysToys #TinyTreasures #dolls #dollplay #play @laceystoys #partnership #childhood #gifting #festivegifting

From ballet twirls to splashes in the swimming poo

From ballet twirls to splashes in the swimming pool, soccer tricks to smashing wickets on the cricket field, my kids are always on the move.
Keeping up with their energy and growth can be tough. But PediaSure nutritional supplement has been a lifesaver. With 25% less sugar, they still love the taste and It contains essential nutrients to support their growth and cognitive development.

With consistent use, you'll see visible results in just 8 weeks !
Thanks to @@pediasure_sa , I know they're getting the nutrients they need to #JustKeepGrowing.

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Shhh, I'm going to let you in on a secret 🙊 Ma

Shhh, I'm going to let you in on a secret 🙊
Making your own wreath at home could not be easier, I literally made this one from things gathered in the garden. With a little florist wire wrapped around and a few recycled christmas ornaments, you'll have a beautiful wreath in no time at all.

So what do you say, will you give it a go?
Beautiful wooden wreath base is from @thebaskitico.wovendesign

#wreath #holidaydecorations #holidaywreath #christmaswreath #homedecor #entertainathome

We just had the most fun birthday treasure hunt fo

We just had the most fun birthday treasure hunt for the kids, and guess what the big surprise was? The @dreamworks Birthday Shout-Out! 🥳✨

Can you imagine the look on your little one’s face when they see their name and favorite DreamWorks characters on TV? It’s honestly such a magical way to celebrate their special day!

If your kiddo’s birthday is coming up in December, don’t miss out! Head to www.dreamworksbirthday.com to sign them up. Plus, there’s even a chance to win an awesome prize for the whole fam! 🎁🎈
And this month, DreamWorks channel 304 is available to all DStv subscribers!

Trust me, this is one birthday surprise they’ll never forget! 💫

#Ad #DreamWorkschannel #DreamWorksBirthdayShoutOut #DreamWorks #DStvza #TreasureHuntFun #birthday #kidsfun
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Festive Magic @hpchydeparkcorner lighting up the

Festive Magic
@hpchydeparkcorner lighting up the festive season
with a dazzling tree, an incredible jazz performance by @hotstixmabuse and the launch of @graham_contemporary new White- Cube art
museum.
@susan_greig added a touch of luxury with the abundant festive tablescape and @justteddy_sa
, as always, delivered the goods with their delicious treats. @mzansiballet ended the evening off with a delightful show of talent.

Jozi , festive is here !! ✨️🌟✨️
Thank you @zebrasquare001 for a lovely night out
#FestiveFeels #hydeparkcorner #festiveseason #whatsoninjozi #johannesburg

Experiencing the new Steyn City Hotel by the Saxon

Experiencing the new Steyn City Hotel by the Saxon is nothing short of exceptional.
This exquisite destination, crafted in partnership with the renowned @thesaxonhotel , is designed for those who appreciate elegance in every detail.
From refined apartments to the grand Presidential Suite, the accommodations exude sophistication. Dining at the Guild, unwinding at the sushi bar and cocktail lounge, experiencing @steyn_city world class facilities, or taking in the views from the rooftop pool – it’s a luxurious retreat unlike any other.

Who else is ready to escape to a world of pure indulgence?

#steyncityhotel #saxonhotelvillasandspa #whatsoninjozi #johannesburg #luxurytravel #luxuryaccommodation #5starhotel #travelsouthafrica #explorejohannesburg #wheretostayinjohannesburg

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